Author: tedloveslucy

I’m not a professional writer but I'm having a lot of fun with this blog. I have many years experience as a health professional and over the years seen quite a lot of life's tragic but also wonderful moments. My husband died some time back and this changed my life forever, but with time I re partnered and together we are now having some wonderful adventures. I write about my new adventures and how there are some amazing things happening in my life but also my topics I’m passionate about and everyday stuff that puts a smile on my face and would like to bring you on this journey of my life. I hope you enjoy reading my blog. A big thank you to my friend Jenn who encouraged me to do this, to my friend Mirella who always has my back and my partner who has helped bring happiness and fun back into my life.

Confidence Isn’t A Natural Attribute.

I have so many feelings and I’m still trying to work things out. Why do I feel this way. I’m feeling fragile. Lacking confidence right now. I’ve had the wind knocked out of my sails. Often what comes out of our mouths in words are different to our inner dialogue. Imposter syndrome I think I... Continue Reading →

December 7, 2022 3

20 Years of Grief and Freeing Myself .

There’s never a timeline on when you have grieved enough but there came a time for me that I had to let go, to free myself of the all to familiar pain of loss. A pain that haunted my life and that I carried for 20 years. It’s time for me to set myself free. Free to live without the weight of grief and to enjoy the future with a lighter heart. I made a conscious decision to let go.

May 30, 2021 4

Do You Ever Need More from your job.

I’m at a stage in my life where I have done what a parent should do and that’s make yourself redundant. Meaning you have raised your children to be strong capable young adults who have fled the nest and can now survive in the world without you. To raise my children and deal with grief... Continue Reading →

April 4, 2021 0

I Dared to Believe in Myself

In a world were memes and podcast flood us with, just do it, don’t let anyone stop you, believe in yourself, I dared to dream. I dared to dream that maybe all those memes are right that I just needed to take the leap, trust the process, step out of my comfort zone. What even... Continue Reading →